Do you dwell on the black cloud or silver lining?

Another Perspective

Can you think of people in your life who always seem to be happy? They use a smile often, a hearty laugh, and their positive demeanor makes them pleasant to be around.

Do you suppose they are just fortunate to have a perfect life with no bumps in the road? Think again. I can pretty well guarantee they face challenges, some more devastating than others.

What valuable trait do they have in common with other seemingly happy, care-free cohorts? A positive attitude! Some people search for the silver lining. Others dwell on the black cloud.

I recently heard about a man in the nursing home who trudged along with crutches and exclaimed what a great day it was. Despite having a bad leg and loss of eyesight in one eye, he shared how lucky he was to have a good eye and one good leg so he could see and walk. What a fine example of choosing the content route rather than the feel-sorry-for-me life.

When my grandchildren are sad, mad or feeling like they are cheated, I stress they have two choices as to how they want to feel. They can dwell on what upset them, pout and have a pity party, or they can walk away and focus on something that makes them feel better.
 

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